lillie jane hendlida needing help on info about her she married my 2nd grat grandpa william franklin graham she was born in texas 1879 william f graham meet her in ok they got married and moved to arkansas baxter county untill she passed away her chinldren are alfred b grayham, clarence w graham, clifton grayham,beaulah graham,clara grayham,everette graham,almus grayham,william f (billy) grayham she died in baxtery county arkansas april 16 1924 any help or info would be a great blessing thank you sue

Lillie's last name must be a misspelling, can't find anything like it. But I did find this on the 1880 census, McLennan county Tx:

Heubeliter (looks more like Henbeliter to me)
Cynthia 26 MO MO MO
Bonny 8 MO PA MO
Lily J 8 months, born month of Sept. TX PA MO

I am not related, and can not tell you for certain if this your relative.

I have no information. I really haven't had time to look for my relatives. And I don't know if we are relative.

You may well have these but JIC

Name: Lillie Jan Graham
Death Day: 16
Death Month: Apr
Death Year: 1924
County: Baxter
Roll Number: 19241933

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1920
William F Graham
FARMER
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 47 years
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1873
Birthplace: Tennessee
Relation to Head of House: Head
Spouse's Name: Lilly I
Father's Birth Place: Alabama
Mother's Birth Place: Georgia
Marital Status: Married
Race: White
Sex: Male
Home owned: Own
Able to read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
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Lilly J Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 40 years
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1880
Birthplace: Texas
Relation to Head of House: Wife
Spouse's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Texas
Mother's Birth Place: Missouri
Marital Status: Married
Race: White
Sex: Female
Able to read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
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Clifford G Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 17 years
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1903
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Son
Father's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Tennessee
Mother's Name: Lilly I
Mother's Birth Place: Texas
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Sex: Male
Able to read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
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Beula Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 13 years
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1907
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Daughter
Father's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Tennessee
Mother's Name: Lilly I
Mother's Birth Place: Texas
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Sex: Female
Able to read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
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Clara Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 10 years
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1910
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Daughter
Father's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Tennessee
Mother's Name: Lilly I
Mother's Birth Place: Texas
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Sex: Female
Able to read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
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Rachal Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 6 years
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1914
Birthplace: Arkansas
Relation to Head of House: Daughter
Father's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Tennessee
Mother's Name: Lilly I
Mother's Birth Place: Texas
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Sex: Female
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Everett Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 2 years 6 months
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1917
Birthplace: Arkansas
Relation to Head of House: Son
Father's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Tennessee
Mother's Name: Lilly I
Mother's Birth Place: Texas
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Sex: Male
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Elwes Graham
Home in 1920: Bayou, Ashley, Arkansas
Age: 6 months
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1919
Birthplace: Arkansas
Relation to Head of House: Son
Father's Name: William F
Father's Birth Place: Tennessee
Mother's Name: Lilly I
Mother's Birth Place: Texas
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Sex: Male

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1910
William F Grayham
Age in 1910: 36
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1874
Birthplace: Tennessee
Relation to Head of House: Head
Father's Birth Place: Mississippi
Mother's Birth Place: Georgia
Spouse's Name: Lille J
Home in 1910: Walker, Garvin, Oklahoma
Marital Status: Married
Race: White
Gender: Male
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Lille J Grayham
Age in 1910: 27
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1883
Birthplace: Texas
Relation to Head of House: Wife
Father's Birth Place: Missouri
Mother's Birth Place: Missouri
Spouse's Name: William F
Home in 1910: Walker, Garvin, Oklahoma
Marital Status: Married
Race: White
Gender: Female
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Alfred B Grayham
Age in 1910: 13
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1897
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Son
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William C Grayham
Age in 1910: 10
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1900
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Son
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George C Grayham
Age in 1910: 7
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1903
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Son
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Beaulah Grayham
Age in 1910: 3
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1907
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Daughter
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Clara A Grayham
Age in 1910: 4/12
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1909
Birthplace: Oklahoma
Relation to Head of House: Daughter

thank you all so very much some info i have have a blessed day suzzie

william franklin graham his dad is john wesley graham and spelled grayham john w wife is pleasant ann sophrona prince when they went to oklahoma in the 1900 their last named changed to grayham i think but not sure his dad is william w graham born in tennesse 1816 an william w wife is francis __?????___________ graham born in vir. 1821. is there any way you can help me be sure of this i have looked for 6 years on him and still not sure your help would be many blessing to this family

Do you know what month Lily was born in? You could try this web site, http://www.txgenweb3.org/txmclennan/
under the topic Lookups, there is a contact person who will look for Early county Deaths. You could request they look for Lily's father's death 1879-1880. Only problem is, I think even the Henbeliter name on the 1880 census is a misspelling, because I can't find any one with a similar name anywhere. But maybe that person can help you.

lily was born in sept

That matches with the Lily J. in McLennon county TX 1880, she was born Sept 1879. You may want to think about sending a request for a birth record, which there is likely a fee for. Is there any family history about her having an older sister?

all i know is that she was williams wife date ofan of birth an of death her sons death records show her last name as hendlida