Jack, let me see if I can address your comments. Perhaps I should say first that the Mary Kelly who married Paul
Kingston is not my Mary
Kingston. I am trying to find the common ancestor for five families - all cousins. Most of these families emigrated from the Drimoleague area to Somersworth,
New Hampshire, with one in nearby
Rochester,NH, and one family in the Barre/Northfield, VT, area. It is likely they originated in Meenies (probably Moyny East). My own direct line is causing me the greatest problem for two reasons: (1) when my ggrandmother Mary
Kingston married Maurice
Mahony in the RC parish of Drimoleague in 1870, it was a 2nd marriage for both of them, so I have no definite information on Mary's first marriage. (2) My grandmother told her children that her mother, Mary
Kingston, was raised a Protestant and that when she married a Catholic, she was disowned by her family. (A C. of I. priest told me this was not uncommon). I don't know whether it was Mary's first husband or 2nd husband who was the Catholic. I found what I believe are Mary's three sons by a Florence
McCarthy in Drimoleague RC church records. I cannot prove this is my Mary because I cannot find the marriage record, but because Florence and Mary's son, who lived in Somersworth where my grandmother lived, was a half-relative, it makes sense that the marriage to Florence
McCarthy was probably Mary's first marriage. Mary's father was Paul, but I don't know the name of Mary's mother. It is likely that Paul
Kingston, my gggrandfather, was a brother to Sam
Kingston who married Margaret
Sullivan (formerly married to
Gow)and Ellen
Kingston who married
Jeremiah Daly. I think that Sam and Ellen raised their children Catholic because they married Catholics (
Sullivan and
Daly).
As for records being online, you are right, but I travel to
Dublin periodically and transcribe records from parish registers at the National Library. I don't happen to have all of the records for Paul
Kingston and Mary Kelly, but if you would like to confirm the record of Mary who was baptized in 1835, I happen to have that: On Jan 12, 1835,
Mary
Kingston, daughter of Paul
Kingston and Mary Kelly was baptized in the RC parish of Drimoleague. Sponsors were John and Catherine Kelly. Residence: Moines
You mentioned that your Jane, born in 1849, is probably different from the one that Joe Kelly has. That is not necessarily so as it was very common for emigrants to declare a younger age when they emigrated. It could well be the same Jane. You would have to look through filmed church records in
Dublin to check out both
Janes. The Skibbereen
Heritage Center is now transcribing Drimoleague records so you might want to check them out. If you have a few extra pennies to spare, you could check on your records. (Not only did
Irish emigrants not always know their date of birth, but some of them changed their age for various reasons. I had a great-aunt who told her family she did not want to be "put out to pasture" when she was older so she made herself much younger than she was, but she really knew her correct year of birth.)
As for land records, Griffith's is now online, and if you are not able to travel to Ireland to look at filmed land records, you can order them from a Family History Center. I use Tenure and House
Books to find who leased a particular plot just before Griffith's. I use the Tithe Applotment
Books (Often in the 1820's and 1830's) to see who leased the land at that time. They are not numbered in the same way as Griffith's so it is difficult to know who the predecessor of a person leasing at the time of Griffith's is if the person was no longer living when Griffith's was published. (And the Mormons did not film all of the Tithes. There are certain libraries that have them - e.g., Boston Public Library and
Boston College for my area). You can use Cancelled Land records (Cancellation
Books) to follow who leased land after Griffith's. My email address is
janfortado@comcast.net if you would like to email me directly. Jan