From the census records, it appears likely that she was born in 1876 rather than 1863. That means she would only be in the 1880 census as a
Wright prior to her marriage. I find a record in Tioga NY that would match her age, and location, and possibly a father named Joseph which would match the name of her oldest son. If this is the correct family, then her grandfather was
Caleb Wright. Below I show 2 RootsWeb trees that include that family with some additional ancestors you might find of interest:
1930 census
New York > Tioga >
Nichols > District 13 > Page 13
Jessie 54 NY NY NY
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1920 census
New York > Tioga >
Nichols > District 160 > Page 2
Jessie M. 43 NY NY NY
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1910 census
New York > Tioga >
Nichols > District 152 > Page 6
Jessie M. 34 NY NY NY
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1900 census
New York > Tioga >
Nichols > District 126 > Page 21
Jesse Apr 1876 24 NY NY NY
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1880 census
New York > Tioga > Owego > District 216 > Page 48
Family 581
Wright,
Caleb 61 carpenter kidney disease PA PA PA
Nancy 63 PA PA PA
Joseph 30 son tinsmith NY PA PA
Laura 7 grand daughter NY NY NY
Anna 6 grand daughter NY NY NY
Jesse 4 grand daughter NY NY NY
Corbin, Henry 32 step son laborer NY CT PA
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1870 census
New York > Tioga > Owego > Page 47
Family 440
Wright, Joseph 48 brick mason NY
Lois 39 NY
Harreit 20? NY
Charles J. 8 NY
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