Here's how...but can you help me to determine the relationship?

Glenn E. Malone (Me)
→
William G.(Bill) Malone
your father
→
Vera Malone
his mother
→
Harry Brumbaugh
her father
→
John Brumbaugh
his father
→
Abraham "Abe" Brumbaugh
his father
→
Daniel Brumbaugh
his father
→
William Brumbaugh
his father
→
Johann "Jockel" Brumbaugh
his father
→
Conrad Brumbaugh
his brother
→
Daniel Brumbaugh
his son
→
George Brumbaugh
his son
→
Sara Ann Robertson
his daughter
→
Temperance "Lizzie" Brokaw
her 2 daughters
→
Sara Fay White (Brokaw)
her daughter & my fifth cousin thrice removed
&
Mary May Hamllik (Brokaw)
her daughter & my fifth cousin thrice removed
(Mary May & Sara Fay are sisters)

In my wife's family:
Tamara Elizabeth Malone (Hamllik)
my wife
→
William Hamllik
her father
→
Jesse "Bill" Hamllik
his father
→
John Hamllik (married Estella Hamllik (White)mention below)
his father
→
Thomas H. Hamllik
his brother
→
Married
Mary May Hamllik (Brokaw)
my fifth cousin thrice removed mentioned above

and

Tamara Elizabeth Malone (Hamllik)
my wife
→
William Hamllik
her father
→
Jesse "Bill" Hamllik
his father
→
Estella Hamllik (White)
his mother
→
John Allen White
her brother
→
Sara Fay White (Brokaw)
my fifth cousin thrice removed mentioned above

Can anyone tell me how to find out how we are related...or are we?